WHAT PARENTS SHOULD DO WHEN SOCIAL SERVICES COME INTO YOUR LIFE
A lot of parents are unaware that social services steal children. In most cases they take children from loving families with the sole purpose of selling them to the highest bidder. I know people would find what I am writing hard to believe as most people think Social Service are always around to help families like they show on main stream social media.
Let us know that what we see on mainstream TV are mostly propaganda and what they want you to see. For instance, the TV in USA mostly portray black boys as drug addicts and in a negative light when the reality is that NON-BLACKS are the main consumers of drugs. Another example is that each time you see a black child on the mainstream TV it is a child who is malnourished with flies sitting on his or her nose. You hardly or never see the reality – which is that most African kids are clean and are properly dressed. No wander even our black kids think that their parents looked like that growing up as a child in Africa.
I must say majority of the times as soon as a Social Service Worker comes into your life, they have one motive – to steal your kids. It is in light of this I would like to bring awareness to parents (especially African Parents) what to do to avoid them coming into your lives and if they do what to do to stop them taking or stealing your kids.
In a summary I would explain most processes that lead to kids being removed from the care of their parents or Guardian.
Go back and read the first part of Social Services kidnapping/stealing our kids by Brenda Caesar Conteh. I highlighted the different types of abuse that can lead to your kids taken or stolen from you. When social services are desperate to take your kids, they may start the process of removing your kids from your care by saying they want to visit your home to have a chat with you about your kid or kids. They normally sound so sweet and professional. If you dare invite them into your home thinking that you are a loving mum and they are only coming to check the dynamics of the home you are so wrong. They enter your home and start building a case against you to steal your kids. If for example a teacher called them to say that your child is too disruptive in class the social worker would ask to visit you. When you open your home to them, they would look around and you would be shocked when if you end up in court with them what they would have written about you or your house. I know of a case when after home visit by the social worker they applied in the family court for an Emergency Order. The judge gave them the order and the parents were shocked to see and hear what false accusations were levied against them in the family court. The social Worker write that the house was dirty and that a bottle of bleach was found on the floor near the entrance of the house. The social worker said that the parents was a negligent to leave the bleach and that the child who was 4 years was at risk of drinking the bleach. I hope you have seen the reason why you should never let a social worker into your house unless they have a warrant to enter by a court order. Even when they show you the court order make sure it has the stamp of the court and a judge has signed that court order. Without a court order ask them to send you a letter inviting you to go and discuss the welfare of you kids in their office. Make sure before you go, go to that appointment with a friend or a lawyer (if you could afford a lawyer).
Lists of what to do to avoid Social Worker from even coming into contact with you.
Never hit your child. Even though on the media they say you can spank but they further said that as long as you don’t leave a mark. Some kids have soft muscles or light -Skinned and an innocent spank can leave a mark. In that case social worker can see the mark and claim in court that maybe you put hot water on that child. They can be very evil if they are desperate to take that child away from your care.
Talk to your kids that whenever a stranger goes to talk to her or him, they should not say anything. This is easier for older kids to implement. They must say I don’t want to speak to you unless my parents are here.
Write a letter to your kids’ school that you don’t allow any social worker or anyone to interview your kids without you. That can be difficult as Social Services might still be contacted by these schools.
Never allow Social Services into your home without a warrant by a judge to enter your home
Whenever you have meetings with social worker’s record the entire meetings. You would find out that they don’t like to be recorded as they aim to lie in court. To protect you from potential lies they can talk about you in court make sure you record everything.
Whenever you have meetings with them write a request from the reports the Social Services may have written. It is better to have it now than later in court. Then you would have the opportunity to ask them to correct any mistakes or lies.
Don’t talk much to them and if you can whenever you have a meeting with a Social Service inform them that you would be coming with a friend or family. I advise not to talk much as they can use your words against you.
I WOULD STOP HERE AND PART THREE WOULD INFORM YOU ABOUT WHAT TO DO IF THEY ILLEGALLY TAKE OR KIDNAP YOUT KIDS
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- Brenda Caesar Conteh
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- United Kingdom
- 25 Apr, 2021
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